[Dailydrool] The Fourth Day, long and bittersweet

[jacquelynn chazey]

                                                       My wonderful Vet sent this to me with a beautiful card in sympathy for Pierre.  It took awhile before I could read it to the end, but I so appreciate it.
Drool to all in need
Jax

                                                           The Fourth Day
by Martin Scot Kosins
If you ever loved an animal, there are three days in your life you will always remember.The first day is a day, blessed with happiness, when you bring home your young new friend.You may have spent weeks deciding on a breed.  You may have asked numerous opinions of many vets, or done long research infinding a breeder.  Or, perhaps in a fleeting moment, you may have just chosen that silly looking mutt in a shelter ... simply because something in its eyes reached your heart.
But when you bring that chosen pet home, and watch it explore, and claim its special place in your hall or front room - and when you feel it brush against you for the first time - it instills a feeling of pure love you will carry with you through the many years tocome.
The second day will occur eight or nine or ten years later.It will be a day like any other.  Routine and unexceptional. But, for a surprising instant, you will look at your longtime friend andsee age where you once saw youth.You will see slow deliberate steps where you once saw energy.And you will see sleep where you once saw activity.So you will begin to adjust your friend's diet - and you may add a pill or two to her food.And you may feel a growing deep fear within yourself, which bodes of a coming emptiness.And you will feel this uneasy feeling, on and off, until the third day finally arrives.And on this day - if your friend and God have not decided it for you, then you will be faced with making a decision of your own -on behalf of your lifelong friend, and with the guidance of your own deepest Spirit.But whichever way your friend eventually leaves you - you will feel as alone as a single star in the dark night sky.
If you are wise, you will let the tears flow as freely and as often as they must.  And if you are typical, you will find that not manyin your circle of family or human friends will be able to understand your grief, or comfort you.But if you are true to the love of the pet you cherished through the many joy filled years, you may find that a soul - a bit smaller in size than your own - seems to walk with you, at times, during the lonely days to come.And  at moments when you least expect anything out of the ordinary to happen, you may feel something brush against your leg - very, very lightly.You will both reject it and embrace it, and it may confuse you.If you reject it, it will depress you.If you embrace it, it will deepen you.Either way, it will still be an ache.But there will be, I assure you, a fourth day when - along with the memory of your pet - and piercing through the heaviness inyour heart - there will come a realization that belongs only to you.It will be as unique and strong as our relationship with each animal we have loved, and lost.This realization takes to form of a Living Love -It is the legacy our pets leave us when they go -And it is a gift we may keep with us as long as we live.It is a Love which is ours alone -And until we ourselves leave, perhaps to join our Beloved Pets -It is a Love that we will always possess.
 		 	   		  
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