<div> I am trying to figure out whether I should keep upsetting neighborhood norms where I live. I walk my bassets three times a day. Walks take maybe 20-30 minutes. I do not walk before 8 AM or after 9 PM in order to be considerate to neighbors. I always clean up after the dogs. They do not make a sound. We do tend to mosey along slowly, as the boys like to sniff, occasionally go flat basset, and I am on the far side of middle age, with arthritis.</div> <div> Here is the problem. Every house in my neighborhood has at least one dog; some have as many as eight (ten per household over 4 mos. of age are legally allowed in our state before one has to apply for a kennel license). However, I am the only person within 4 blocks square who walks her dog. The others are all tethered or confined and do not leave their yards. This is the norm. Needless to say, when we walk by, a cacophony of barking
erupts as we pass some of the other houses, although it does not last long and I have not really thought it a problem until recently. (Nuisance barking is legally defined here as ten consecutive minutes, or thirty intermittent minutes at a stretch).</div> <div> Two different neighbors have asked me not to walk my dogs at all anywhere in the neighborhood. I do not usually have access to a car, so it is not usually possible to drive my dogs out of the neighborhood to a welcoming spot (like the dog park 12 miles away) to exercise us all, and there is no route that bypasses all of the other barking dogs. I do vary my route so as not to pass any one house more than once a day, and do respect daylight hours.</div> <div> Even so, a couple of days ago one of the complaining neighbors came out to scream at me at length about "loitering" along the street, "disturbing everyone", and added a few unfortunate invectives
about my skin color and gender. My pointing out to her that my dogs were not making a sound (while hers were) did not help matters. I came home shaking and have been a little fearful of walking the dogs since, although I do not really think we are in any actual danger, but my emotions are shook. </div> <div> I apologize to moderators who rejected my initial post, written just after the incident, which was overly--well, whatever--expressive of some of my opinions about having been on the receiving end of the verbal abuse. </div> <div> I honestly don't know what to do. I do not think simply caving in to norms and stopping walking the dogs is the answer. (One of my neighbors has done this). So, what I am currently doing is walking in the direction away from the cursing neighbor's house (but this means passing the other complaining neighbor's house more than once).</div> <div> Any
suggestions? Thanks, Val </div> <div> </div><p>
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