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size=2 face=Arial>Have your nephew be the giver of the food, and the treatman,
etc.. for a while.. when she associates good things with him.. that will help
calm her fears.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
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size=2 face=Arial>He can help reduce her fear by sitting on the floor when he
tries to give treats.. thus not so big and towering.</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
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size=2 face=Arial>He should use a clam tone at all times, doesn't matter if he's
happy excited, or angry, calm muted tones so that she's not further put into
fear from "the giant". (LOL)</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
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size=2 face=Arial>-Robert</FONT></SPAN></DIV>
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<FONT size=2 face=Tahoma><B>Subject:</B> [Dailydrool] Need
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<DIV>However, Ms. Beasley is terrified of him and cowers under the dining room
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<DIV>She actually shakes when he is here. I want to help my nephew
obviously, we are family, but I am afraid what this will do to Beasley.
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