<html><head><meta http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"></head><body dir="auto"><br><br><div id="AppleMailSignature">Val Brewer</div><div><br>Begin forwarded message:<br><br></div><blockquote type="cite"><div><b>From:</b> Val lbrewerzwick <<a href="mailto:vlbzwick@yahoo.com">vlbzwick@yahoo.com</a>><br><b>Date:</b> July 11, 2018 at 9:41:03 AM HST<br><b>To:</b> "<a href="mailto:sallyemking@yahoo.co.uk">sallyemking@yahoo.co.uk</a>" <<a href="mailto:sallyemking@yahoo.co.uk">sallyemking@yahoo.co.uk</a>><br><b>Subject:</b> <b>Rolph</b><br><br></div></blockquote><blockquote type="cite"><div><span>Gosh, Sally, I don’t know what I would do either. The one thing I’d recommend is to ban the word “selfish” from your thinking. Clearly you love Rolph (as do all we Droolers) and are trying to weigh in your mind what would be best for him—whether Rolph’s pleasure still outweighs his hurt or vice versa. Also what you can tolerate. I’m betting Rolph supports your decision either way. Neither waiting longer if you are unsure, or helping him along if you feel it is in his best interest are selfish decisions. In your place, I might let it ride along a little longer, letting my own unconscious ponder on the issue and tip the scales. Sending prayers. Either decision is the right one. </span><br><span></span><br><span>Val Brewer</span></div></blockquote></body></html>