[Dailydrool] How to decide when "it's time..."

[Susan Woodward]

Dearest Kacy...

I have had many many cats in my lifetime and always when it is near the end
they always go off their food for at least two days and are very lethargic
or wobbly when they walk. I have never had to put a cat down for they always
seem to curl up near me and when I checked on them they were gone. Cats,
unlike dogs, do not make a big production of the dying process. They go
quietly, either in your arms, at the foot of the bed or quietly on the sofa.
Even in the end they die with dignity. Hope this helps.

 

Susan and 6 critters

 

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From: kacy green [mailto:greenlikethecolor at gmail.com] 
Sent: Tuesday, November 01, 2011 12:31 PM
To: dailydrool at dailydrool.org
Subject: [Dailydrool] How to decide when "it's time..."

 

My dad's cat, Mau, is about 14 years old and is very ill. We found her a
kitten in a rainstorm and she has been around ever since. She has always
been a fierce feline, scaring away the other cats and ruling with an iron
paw. Now she is ill, semi-incontinent and lethargic but the vets can't seem
to figure out what it is based on the testing my dad has agreed to thus far.
When they hydrate her she rebounds but then eventually becomes ill and
lethargic again. Over the past 2 months she has lost 40% of her bodyweight
(10 lbs now down to 6). 

Last week she was so ill and my dad decided she would need to be put down.
His wife wanted him to wait though because she was on a business trip until
Friday evening. He has never had to make this decision before but he knew he
couldn't let Mau continue like this. He made the appt for Friday night and
then waited until his wife returned but of course, Mau then rebounded and
has been doing well again thus far - eating, going outside, etc. Her
tramadol is running out and he fears/knows she will further decline in
health soon. The problem is, he can't decide when is the "right time". Do
you wait til she is doing bad again and then worry you've let her suffer too
long? Do you put her down while she seems well and happy because you know
the end is any day now? Will the vets look at him like he's crazy if he
brings her in while she seems fine? These are the issues he is struggling
with and I feel so bad for him having to decide this. I've offered to go
with him, and also to take her on my own if they can't handle it, but they
just can't decide when to do it. 

To make this basset-related - the boys are scared sh*tless of her and will
not approach my dad's house if she is anywhere in the front yard. Rupert
will literally cross the street to avoid certain cats, and Mau is one of
them. :) 

Drool to all,
Kacy with Cowboy and Rupert

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