[Dailydrool] So you want a rescued dog eh?
Pamela McQuade
plmcquade at optimum.net
Tue Feb 4 14:59:07 PST 2014
I have fostered many dogs--unhappily, I have never kept count--but every
dog that has come through my door has been special. Some have been
elderly (and they mostly stayed because they needed a home). Some have
been older puppies. Some have hit middle age.
I do not understand anyone's problem with a rescued dog. I have had ill
dogs, well dogs, special-need dogs. Right now I think my calling is to
have special-need dogs, since every dog in our home now fits that bill.
Are they "the perfect dog"? No. But they are all perfect. I'm not a
perfect human, so I can hardly ask them to be perfect. Sure, they keep
me out in the snow when I'm cold and want to come in. They pee on my
floors. I interrupt occasional fights.
But Holly came in our door as a senior who had never really been loved.
She loved it here so much, she asked to stay. I have always thought she
might have been happier in a home where she was the only dog, but she
has made up for that by ruling the roost. She is unfailing sweet to
humans, and if she doesn't greet you at a Tri-State event that she
attends, it is never her fault. She loves to socialize.
Dexter is the most wonderful, sweet, charming hound in the world (I know
you all have the same dog in your home, and I admit I am biased). He
cannot see, since glaucoma won the battle for his vision. But he adores
every human he meets. He loves Drew and me. He has the charm of a Cary
Grant, which is why I call him C. Dexter Haven, after Cary's character
in "The Philadelphia Story." Though, at the time we adopted him, we knew
he'd lose his sight, we have never been sorry that we adopted him. He is
perfect, and you'll know that when you see him navigate a strange place
with just a few directions to keep him on course.
Horton only came to us because he had a broken leg and we had a ramp.
Tri-State had to turn on the charm to get me to take him, because I
don't do puppies. Really? I am so glad I took him in, though he is very
fearful. He adores me. He's sweet. He's just afraid of the rest of the
world, and, reading an article recently, I discovered he probably has
post-traumatic stress disorder. That's why I'm safe, but no one else
is--unless it's one of my neighbors, who is also named Pam. (Maybe he
only likes Pams?)
What is perfect about a dog is the good things about it. And every dog
has some good qualities. Those of us who take in the "broken" dogs know
this. Those who don't know it are missing out on the best friends they
could ever have in life.
I too am broken. I don't do everything perfectly in life. I have a few
health issues. I'm not always perfectly patient. But my dogs have been
patient with me. They don't throw me out because I'm late feeding them.
They don't stop loving me if I have to spend the day out of the house
and can't love them up enough. I'm glad they aren't human, because if
they were, they might have tossed me out long ago.
Maybe the imperfect ones aren't the dogs, but the humans. They haven't
trained their dogs consistently. They haven't loved them enough to be
willing to take them to the vet over and over again until they are well.
They've failed their dogs habitually, but in the end, they blame the
dogs, not themselves.
The best dog you'll ever have is a rescue, because that dog will never
forget that you saved his life (or her life). Dogs have long memories
and will never forget that. They love you until their last breath, even
if you don't quite deserve it.
Yes, I want a rescued dog. I just can't understand why everyone doesn't.
Pam, food slave to the perfect Dashing Bassets
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